Positive Attitude

POSITIVE ATTITUDE:

(Power to pursue a peaceful and purposeful plan/process)

ATTITUDE

Attitude is something that impacts everything we do.

The thoughts and the actions accompanied by thoughts are the outcomes of our Attitude. While attitude is itself a mental state, it impacts other mental states and also the physical states. It has an influence on everything we do and strive to do as it is base for all the thought process.

It is the state of mind or feeling with regard to some matter

Every one of us has our own set of Ideas based on our circumstances and our background. There are certain values we have in our inner instincts that help us to be aright with what we do and what we need. Attitude is the state of mind with the thoughts or feelings in regard to something.

It is not inherited but it is acquired through the person’s own choices.

The person’s state of his mind and the emotions is not inherited from generations though it could be strongly influenced by the situations and background. Attitude can be acquired through our own choices and the decisions on the choices we have.  

NEED OF ATTITUDE

Attitude is needed for every human individual because the state of feeling and thinking alone differentiates human from other organism

Attitude is the base for all our thought processes and thereby all our actions. It is very much needed as it differentiates human beings from every other living being in the world. The emotions and intellect are best utilized only with the aid of attitude.

Every Behavior, Manner, and Character of the person relies on the attitude of that person.

As the actions are the outcome of our thoughts and thoughts are the outcome of our attitude, all the behavior or the manner or the Character of a person is strongly dependent on the attitude of the person.

The person’s choices have great influence with regard to his attitude.

All of us have different options around us, from a minor thing to a major thing. Every choice will not be an interest to every person as we differ in our tastes or interests. What we choose and how we choose from the choices depends on our attitude.

CONSEQUENCES OF NEGATIVE ATTITUDE

Every action of a person is the outcome of his attitude. If the person has a negative attitude, his actions will not be desirable

Outward expressions are the effect of inward thoughts, so every action we do knowingly or unknowingly is the outcome of our attitude. If we don’t take any effort to tame our attitude with right values, thoughts, and beliefs, the attitude will be negative and the actions will ultimately become undesirable.

The Negative attitude could make a person non-functional or hyper-functional, and both could be disastrous

The Negative attitude will be usually self-centered and the person could utilize his socio-economic advantages only for the gratification of self. This will make a person non- functional or hyper functional, and both could be disastrous in one way or the other.

COST OF A NEGATIVE ATTITUDE

The Negative attitude results in the impaired relationships

The Attitude which is negative causes malfunction in the person’s behavior and actions which is not accepted in the society normally. So, it usually results in an impaired or unhealthy relationships.

It results in the broken-heartedness

The negative attitude usually has the thought process that is not socially accepted or it is just consideration of self. Also, the emotions are not balanced as it doesn’t allow a person to act appropriately, which results in broken-heartedness after some point of time.

It could make some irreversible change around an individual which would be much costlier to be retrieved.

The negative attitude can make a person act inappropriately without the right thoughts and feelings which would be much adverse. It can make an irreversible change around an individual that’s much costlier for a person to come back and settle smoothly.

REDEFINING ATTITUDE

To achieve the vision, goals, and plans, in a peaceful and joyful manner, redefinition of attitude is very much necessary.

All the people have own agenda and target to reach every point of life. But simply doing anything for reaching a point may not be valuable when turned back. There should be Joy and Peace in the heart always which makes a person successful as a whole. Thereby in order to achieve the vision in a healthier manner, a positive attitude is much essential, for which redefinition of attitude is essential at many points of life.

Our attitude may be already positive or negative or shifting at times. All should have the passion to achieve Positive attitude and stay in it, which could be gained by positive and rational thinking.

The Attitude need not be constant throughout, it can be strongly influenced by the situations we undergo and exposure we have. There will be always a shift in the heart and mind at the adverse or exciting situations which make us disabled from what we actually want to be. Every one of us needs to have a passion to stay in a Positive attitude through proper taming of our thoughts and feelings, by redefining the attitude.

IMPORTANCE OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Research says that only 15% of the Technical Knowledge is responsible for success, while the rest lies only with the attitude

Attitude is the attribute that helps a human being in the thought process. Though a person is well acquired with much knowledge and If (s) he doesn’t know how, why and where to use it, it doesn’t account for much usefulness. Even Researchers confirms that only a very small amount of Technical knowledge is responsible for the success of a person, while Attitude has a major role. A person with a positive attitude can be able to develop himself with leaps of knowledge when he determines.

We aren’t responsible for controlling what happens outside us but we are responsible for controlling how we react towards it.

Nobody can change certain circumstances around us as it is dependent on so many factors. So we aren’t responsible for what’s happening outside us. But certainly, we alone are the proprietors of how we react to the external situations and we alone are responsible for how we react to it. A positive attitude helps in positive reactions.

A positive attitude helps an individual to handle everything with positive thinking and put the right thoughts into the right actions at the right times.

Differences always exist in all the things and the people around us. And every one of us has our own interests in the different options around us. Only the Positive attitude with Positive thinking will be helpful to handle the Difference in the thoughts and opinions so that we will be able to accept others and acknowledge ourselves. And it doesn’t stop with just accepting others but also helps to think what is right and do what is right at the appropriate times.

DEVELOPING POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Don’t push yourself further when you are already burdened. Though you could do it, you don’t have time to do it.

A positive attitude helps a person to be considerate of not only self but also others. It gives confidence to handle things, even the unknown, after learning about it. But at the same time, we need to analyze our own time, treasure and talent for not getting burdened. Though there will be confidence, it should not be overconfidence. You may be able to do many things but you should not be held in so many things that you don’t have the time or resources to do it and be embarrassed.

Don’t Compare Yourself with others, which makes you lose your Hope.

Everyone should accept the self in spite of others' comments or criticism. Also, there is always uniqueness in everyone that should be respected without any discrimination. It’s always good to admire some positives from others as well as ourselves and set right the limitations in ourselves as well as others. But comparing ourselves unnecessarily with others may make us feel inferior or superior which is unhealthy and affect our attitude.

Set targets for yourself according to your capacity and interests.

We all need to be focused on what we do, by being well prepared and planned. Only when we are prepared we would give much thought to what we do by knowing the objectives. Setting up targets by knowing the Capacity and Interests may be helpful to achieve it, with the right values and positive attitude, as well as continue to have a positive attitude.

Spend more time in things that interest you, at the same time spend little time in things that may not interest you, but necessary at times.

Positive Attitude helps a person to develop and build the self. It makes the person go into something that nobody entered, makes the person to leap beyond that’s unseen. So, spending more time on our interests may be helpful to master it and at the same time, we need to learn new things that will be helpful to build and relate things with one another. Both of them will be helpful to build a positive attitude in a person.

There is nothing that is beyond our knowledge and understanding which is made by our fellow human beings who are similar to ourselves, but the time is taken to understand it differs from person to person based on our own experience and exposure.

Most of the time we limit ourselves after trying out things for few times, failing to realize that trying it more would be surely helpful to attain the knowledge and understanding of it. Everything that’s discovered and made was done only by the human beings who are similar to each of us and no way superior. But the way we utilize our mind and heart makes a difference. Everyone can master everything but the time taken can be different based on experience and exposure.

Practicing things regularly makes you a master in it. Don’t worry about the time taken to master it as it differs from person to person

We all have our own strengths and Weaknesses, Our strength might be a weakness in others while our weakness might be a strength in others. We have our own capacity and ability, and practicing things with perseverance will help us to achieve the desired result and master over those things. So, there is no need to worry about the time taken to achieve the desired goal that is determined, but pursues it with confidence and hard work so that it would be accomplished at some point in life.

Learning a few new things every day will help you learn an abundant amount of things after a period of time without much burden.

Knowledge about many things around us will certainly help us and guide us, to have different options. Learning at least a few things new every day will contribute a lot in our day-to-day life, and the knowledge will be abundant after a certain period of time. It will certainly help us to take new steps and proceed further with confidence and a positive attitude.

Motivate yourself whenever you need it.

As human beings, we are socially susceptible and need inspiration from one another. But we can’t expect others to be with us all the time and it isn’t possible. So we all need to be self-motivated at least during some points of life to keep moving forward.

Help the people who are less fortunate than yourself, then you can gain your attitude.

We all strive to be accepted, acknowledged and adored by others in everything we do, at least by the people who are closer to us. Helping the people who are unfortunate, may enhance our social relationship and help us to accept and love others as ourselves. It will also be helpful to gain and develop a positive attitude in us.  

RESPONSE TOWARDS FAILURE

“I’m such an Idiot! I will never try that again! Or What I can learn from this experience?”

There can be two basic responses when we fail in attempting something new, doing something or involved in something. One of the responses is seeing the situation separately and saying to ourselves, that it is unworthy to try it again. And the other response can be applying the Experience by learning something out of it and applying the same in the future.

STUMBLING BLOCKS

Failures may be stumbling. But look at that as an event of learning, by not taking it personally.

No one in the world could say that they had achieved something targeted, at the very first attempt. Achieving something at the first attempt is mostly an impaired success as it doesn’t have much exposure and needed experience. Success with a lot of attempts with striving to achieve is great with a lot of learnings. Though failures are always stumbling, we can look at it as a process of Learning for a positive attitude.

We may have tried again and again for 99times which would have left us frustrated, but when we don’t continue trying from 100^th time, we fail at that point.

Success is not only achieving something that is targeted but the process of trying and working out things in order to achieve something. We always need to try out some way when things don’t work in a particular way. Trying out the way that doesn’t work at all is stupidity. Trying and thinking may cause frustration but only when we continue to try we will be able to achieve that is targeted. The movement we stop trying out things, we fail and attitude is affected.

Mistakes may happen, but learn from it and try your best not to repeat it.

We human beings are not all perfect and have our limitations. We always make mistakes knowingly or unknowingly. Making the same mistakes, again and again, isn’t good and we need to learn from our mistakes and learn not to do it again at any cost to build upon a positive attitude. 

RESULTS OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE

A positive attitude helps a person to relate well to the people around.

Interpersonal relations will be efficient and without deceit only when the attitude of the people is good. A person could accept the other person without considering his weaknesses and limitations, only when there is a healthy relationship. The Positive attitude helps us to relate to a person in a good and admirable way though they are wrong.

A person with a positive attitude never mourns for a mistake or a problem but always tries to solve it.

The person with a positive attitude have concern for the mistake or a problem and he doesn’t continue in sadness by mourning for it. The person with a positive attitude always try to correct the mistakes that had been taken place and tries to solve the problem as far as possible.

A person with a positive attitude will lead a content, joyful and peaceful life with all balance.

The Positive attitude person doesn’t stay idle and will be involved in something for the cause of self and others' development. (S) He learns new things, increases exposure and builds wider options around. So the person with positive attitude need not be stuck by something and could lead a content, Joyful and peaceful life as the person knew ways to balance things around.

A person with a positive attitude is always selfless, discerning, achieving by leading a lovely life.

The Person with positive attitude knew that gratifying the self alone cannot sustain a human being as it is not much constructive and reasonable. So, (s)he is always  without selfishness, Able to discern what is right and wrong, achieving the positive effects by leading a worthy, valuable and lovely life.

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